I think it boils down to that. We are selfish.
I had this little talk with the lover and I asked him this random question if he thinks that we’ll still be together 5 years later. I wasn’t being totally serious with it, I was just trying to fish sweet little words from him to get giggles. Instead, it got him thinking hard and talking defensive and all that. He said “well, 5 years is a long time” blah blah blah. He’s funny sometimes. Then I suddenly realized that whoa.. he’s really being serious!! From what I can tell, he cares little of what will happen to us when he actually moves. And to be honest, I am the same in case I move. It must be because of selfish reasons, what else. I’m thinking of my own life plans, and he’s thinking of his own. Hehe!! Then I said I’ll follow him to California if he moves but he doesn’t believe I’m being serious. HAHA!! I don’t think we’re that attached yet to include each other in our more serious plans. Although it’s nice to think about. Hehe!! But yeah, I totally understand why he suddenly got confused. I wanted to tell him it’s alright but I guess it was too late. =P I did tell him though that I’m used to talking about the future because, maybe from my past relationships, it was fun and never taken seriously. I was hoping that will make him stop thinking about it. It’s my mistake for not considering he might react differently because he for sure did a 180 and made me panic a little. HAHA!! He’s so cute!
But whatever. I don’t have to be confused and dwell on things that aren’t even worth it. I know I love him today. And everyday after will be an adventure. SupahSarj!!!
I like it a lot when Jake do cute things like this. Hehe!!
Yeah.
I run on a Mac and Camino.
Chuck, Heroes, Kath & Kim
Grey's Anatomy, Life on Mars
CSI
Seinfeld 
bakit nga kaya mahilig tayo mag-isip tungkol sa future? nakakatuwa kasi pag-usapan. mas nakakatawa pag break na kayo tapos maiisip mo yung mga “plano” nyo. hahaha..
what’s important is you love each other now. gaya nga ng sabi mo, everyday after will be an adventure.
Boyfriends can be really serious and cute at the same time. Aww, future love talks! Sweet Jakey~ Letters on the sand.
Aww, ang sweet ng boyfie mo! Ang sweet nyong dalawa. Stay in love! ♥
Claire
alam mo ba sarah sabi nila pagseryos daw ang guy sa mga ganitong usapan ay malayo mararating ng relationship nyo siguro totoo dahil nangyari sa amin ni luvski. we used to discussed topic like this when we were still gf/bf relationship hehehehe
awww mag-move pala sya sa cali…
You love someone because he or she is a value–a selfish value to you, as determined by your standards–just as you are a value to him or her.
All of which is to say, I suppose, that selfishness is no more inevitable than love.